How to Be An Adult; Assholes: A theory; and Laws of Power















Three books: David Richo's, Aaron James', and Robert Greene's. I have to be more careful, more discerning. I turned to books to learn how to discern.
Three books: David Richo's, Aaron James', and Robert Greene's. I have to be more careful, more discerning. I turned to books to learn how to discern.
Brene Brown writes "We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known."
Writing well is the best revenge. I love Anne Lamott's beautiful book on the craft of writing, Bird by Bird, with its approbation for 'shitty first drafts.'
Brene Brown: The power of vulnerability | Video on TED.com. "Blame is a way to discharge pain and discomfort."
Social contracts. I used to think that celebrities set themselves up for rumors and gossip by entering the limelight.
The Internal Triangle. The attention to transference and counter-transference as Holmes relates anecdotes about women patients from her years as an analyst.
Smelling Different from the Tribe. Yesterday I had a conversation with a friend about outcasts.